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A Note from Clare Roth

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Junior year, I decided to join the PTPI Student Chapter of my school, Dowling Catholic, in West Des Moines, Iowa USA, almost on a whim; I believed in the chapter’s motto and I wanted to be more involved. When I learned we were running a fundraiser, I jumped right in, talking to religion classes in my high school about the mission of ChildVoice International, a non-profit that rehabilitates former child soldiers in Uganda. I helped collect money, counted cash and raised awareness for the fundraiser, but ultimately it was my high school’s generosity that raised over 4,000 dollars. We happily sent the money to ChildVoice and thought that was the end of it.

For me, it wasn’t. At the end of June, I was told that our school had raised the most money in the nation and as a result, I was being offered a trip to ChildVoice’s center in Gulu, Uganda. Less than two months and hours of studying Ugandan etiquette later, I found myself thousands of miles from home and immersed in an entirely different culture.  Being there was different than anything I’ve ever experienced before.  I was suddenly sleeping in a hammock, living without running water, and not even thinking about technology. Every day, I woke up and spent my time truly interacting with people there. I built a rabbit hutch with my team, pumped water from the borehole, and taught the girls how to cook peanut butter cookies. My best time spent, however, was simply talking with the former child soldiers.

Not only did I get to talk to people who had lived entirely different lives than me, I was able to actually put into practice PTPI’s mission in the real world: Peace through Understanding. I began to understand their culture more fully: how hunger was more prevalent, how only skirts were acceptable for women, how walking 10 kilometers every day to the city or to a farm is normal, how the people appreciate what they have, and even more than that, who they have in their lives, because they have lived through such horrible pain.

Coming back was difficult, not only because I was leaving my friends, but because I now had to adjust to the perspective I had gained visiting another country for two weeks.  While it’s hard not knowing if I’ll ever be able to visit again, I would never regret going.  My time in Uganda has changed the way I see everything, and I wouldn’t trade that for the world.

Side note from Liz Wegman, Director of Public Relations and Development at PTPI:

When I read Clare’s account of her trip, I couldn’t help but ask her more about her interactions with former child soldiers.  She told me that they visited an all girls facility and did not ask too much about their lives serving as soldiers.  Clare also said that the girls were very good humored and always joking and laughing.

I asked if Clare came away with any impressions on how these children would be affected for the rest of their lives as a result of their experiences.  She responded that she knows they go through a lot of counseling and that their dreams can get awful but that what struck her the most was their age and maturity; that they seemed so much older than her but were often in fact younger.

Discussion Questions 6 and 9 for Reading Lolita in Tehran

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

Questions answered by Rosanne Rosen, Sr. Vice President of Operations for PTPI

6. Our book club members found several events/topics in the book which gave us pause.  What did you find most profound and/or shocking?   Will you explain why?  Throughout the book, there were many quotes – whether by Nafisi – or by one of the giants of literature.  What stood out the most for you and why?

There were several events described in the book which still haunt me.  The idea of martyrdom is very difficult for me to understand. On page 208 Nafisi discusses how the Ayatollah Khomeini was determined to capture the holy city of Karbala.  Young boys (10 – 16) as well as middle aged and old men were used to clear minefields by walking over them, believing the government propaganda of a heroic and adventurous life in the here and after.  I cannot understand the willingness or asking someone to walk through a field of landmines where the result is absolute: death or dismemberment.   It’s almost as though I can see the horrifying scene in my mind and am haunted by the vision.  How can a child make that decision?  What kind of propaganda were they told?  Were they forced and faced death either way?  Did their families face death if they didn’t walk the minefield?  So many questions will always remain unanswered.

There is a section where we learn that young female prisoners are raped before execution because of the fear that virgins could make it to heaven despite their sins.  Many of the female prisoners did nothing more than wear their chador wrongly, distribute leaflets on the street, etc.  I cannot imagine the humiliation these young women endured prior to the horrifying event of knowing they would be executed.  This is a particularly sadistic and cruel punishment these unknown victims endured during their last moments in life.

I’m not sure I’ve ever read a book with so many thought provoking comments and statements.  Almost every other page had a sentence or a paragraph which I wanted to underline and begin discussing immediately.  There is not one which stands out more than others.  One very interesting perspective was on page 274. “Manna used to say that there are two Islamic Republics: the one of words and the one of reality.”  I think that statement can transcend borders and nationalities and is the reality for many peoples of the world.

9. Is the dream sometimes better than the reality?  (On Page 144 Nafisi, after discussing Gatsby, writes, “Was this not similar to our revolution, which had come in the name of our collective past and had wrecked our lives in the name of a dream?”)

I definitely believe that oftentimes the dream is better than the reality as disappointing and harsh as it sounds.  Each of our dreams is different and we each interpret promises, speeches, and goals of a society differently.  Our book club discussed what is happening in the United States. For some, the dream of getting President Obama elected was the most powerful thing which has happened in our lives.  Everyone has a different interpretation of his first 9 months in office and the reality of the United States today.

I cannot imagine how utterly devastating it must have been to know that all you had worked for, believed in, and strived for had turned into a life much worse than before.   My experiences are not on the same level compared to those who lived under such oppressive regimes; however, all dreams are important to the person who owns them – they are personal and have meaning.

I dreamt of the perfect honeymoon on a beautiful beach in a tropical resort.  The reality was that the employees went on strike and the local Jamaican police showed up with guns; the gourmet food didn’t exist because the chefs left with the other workers, and the beach wasn’t so white and sandy – a little too rocky to run barefoot through the sand.  We still had fun; it just wasn’t like my dream.  This example isn’t as dramatic as undergoing a revolution which was certainly eye-opening.  Most of us won’t have to experience such a powerful paradigm shift as in Nafisi’s world.  One of my mother’s favorite quotes was, “be careful for what you wish for – you just might get it!”

The opinions expressed by PTPI staff and other book club members are entirely their own and are not necessarily the views of  People to People International or that of PTPI’s Officers, Board of Directors and Board of Trustees.

A Note from PTPI’s Wilmington, Delaware (USA) Chapter

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

PTPI’s Wilmington, Delaware Chapter held their 25th Anniversary Gala on October 17, 2009.  The reception and dinner also served as a benefit for Power Up Gambia.  Special guests included Her Excellency Mrs. Susan Waffa-Ogoo, The Gambian Ambassador to the United Nations, Kathryn Cunningham Hall, founder of Power Up Gambia, Kebba Badgie, CEO of Sulayman Junkung General Hospital, a hospital in Gambia that is operating effectively using a solar energy system,  Alieu Nyassi and Dr. Samba Tata.

Kebba Badgie addresses the audience at the PTPI Delaware 25th Anniversary Gala

Kebba Badgie addresses the audience at the PTPI Delaware 25th Anniversary Gala

On October 18th we gathered informally at the home of (chapter members) Edward  and Jean Raleigh to discuss Pakistan.  Ms. Hina Haq, author of Sadika’s Way: A Novel of Pakistan and America was our invited guest.  She arrived dressed in Pakistani attire as did (chapter members) Dr. and Mrs. Saleem Kahn. Various decorated textiles are important in their culture.  She also brought other items that were beautifully made in her native land. We discussed education, marriage customs, politics, foods, languages, and other Pakistani issues.  Later we shared Pakistani foods and chai while the lively conversations continued.

Chapter members discuss Pakistan with author Hina Haq

Chapter members discuss Pakistan with author Hina Haq

View more photos on the People to People Delaware Web site, and on PTPI’s Facebook page.